Dating Indonesian Girls
Apr 4th, 2006, in Society, by PatungDating Indonesian women may not be for everyone.
Indonesian women, particularly on the island of Java, are exceptionally beautiful. They tend towards the very feminine side, with lovely skin, are not too tall, and have knock-out smiles. There’s plenty of plus on that side of things.
If wer’e to be honest we have to recognise that many men are interested in a woman who will take care of him, do the housework without complaint, and take care of other matters similarly without much bother. Your average Indonesian girl often fits the bill in this respect, certainly more than your average western woman, the less said about them the better.
On the other hand going out with Indonesian women in a romantic way can have many mysterious pitfalls.
Some women here are clearly only interested in money. Some men are unbothered by this. Others of the female variety, can, once we get to know them very well, come across as practically insane, hysterically emotional, scheming, over-possessive, inclined to, usually fake, attempts at self-harm in order to get their way. As I said, not for the faint-hearted.
There are a few Indonesia dating websites although the area is not nearly as developed as that in nearby Phillipines or Thailand. To begin your online journey on the Indonesian dating scene our very own “Meet” section has many a lady eager for company.
4,898 Comments on “Dating Indonesian Girls”
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Peet says:
@ET
who wants 4 wife’s? one is more then enough to handle at the same time.
Apart from that if you are married in Indonesia most wife’s do not agree if you take in another, mine for sure is against it and I think this is normal.BS(PM)
in the Netherlands and Britain 35,000 is before taxes right? I remember paying 52% in Holland (taxes and social securities) over 65,000 per year.
Most people in Holland make about 2000 Euro net in the pocket per month. -
ET says:
who wants 4 wifeās? one is more then enough to handle at the same time.
There are benefits to have more than one wife, e.g. if one is āindisposedā or āhas a headacheā there is always another available.
But the biggest advantage is if they feel like nagging they will probably do it to each other instead of bothering you. The backlash however is they might use the opportunity to conspire against you.Letās take another example. If a woman was to be banned to an uninhabited island and given the privilege to take a companion along she would almost certainly choose a man as a partner. No so a man, at least not me. I would take another man as a companion, build a raft together and sail to another island with plenty of women.
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deta says:
There are benefits to have more than one wife, e.g. if one is āindisposedā or āhas a headacheā there is always another available.
I would take another man as a companion, build a raft together and sail to another island with plenty of women.
ET, are you sure you have enough resources to fulfill their desires, dear?
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Cukurungan says:
Okay, Iām willing to reconsider and look at it in a positive way. If I convert will I also be allowed to have 4 wives?
hehehe good enough just for laugh…The issue is not the matter āallowedā or ānot allowedā, but how come hobo who struggle hard to provide welfare for him self, try to convince 4 women to become his wives.
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How about you cukky, same question asked to you….
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ET, are you sure you have enough resources to fulfill their desires, dear?
Last time I looked I still had plenty.
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but how come hobo who struggle hard to provide welfare for him self, try to convince 4 women to become his wives.
hahaha, the comments of this minus habens always remind me of those little wind-up toys that run babibuta in all directions, bang against the walls, make a lot of noise and when finally broken are simply discarded.
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ET
good luck with 4, I could not handle it -
bs says:
@peet
It changed a bit: 52% income tax for everything over 52.000 euro/year š
The U.K. does have lower income taxes (but Dutch education is cheaper…)@deta
I guess ET has male genitals all over his body, enough to continuously pleasure at least four women. Are you sure you don’t want to meet him?
I on the other hand have no place to put the second, third or fourth woman, so I can be genuinely happy with the one woman I do have. -
Nay says:
There are benefits to have more than one wife, e.g. if one is āindisposedā or āhas a headacheā there is always another available.
I have that kind of lifestyle already, with all of the positives and none of the negatives, and I’m not even married. Fact is, I don’t want a harem!
I’d much rather be with independantly well-off, educated, emancipated women who can think for themselves. For that, it means that I have to reject a lot of women and be selective, but It’s easy to do as long as you reject prostitution in all it’s forms (including marriage), and let the women do and see who they please while treating them with complete trust and respect.
That means that yes, some women get bored, or are looking for a man to buy them, and stop seeing me, for a while anyway. No problem, and I have to respect that. I continuously see other women anyway, so it’s no huge loss to me and they stay as good friends.I’m with you on this one ET. Given the choice of converting and having my pecker multilated, I can keep my current lifestyle.
Given the choice, who would have voluntarily converted if it weren’t for getting married?
I’m a business man, and to me that’s just a bad business decision.but how come hobo who struggle hard to provide welfare for him self, try to convince 4 women to become his wives.
REAL hobos have multiple girlfriends, who all have their own apartments, and he moves between them whenever he likes. He has no need to get married, much less support any women. Quite the opposite… the women support him!
Having known a few hobos in my time – this is how they operate…. at least until they turn into old and dirty homeless people… but by that time they probably have a few illegitimate children around the place that they never had to raise, so they don’t feel that they failed in life so much.
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BS,
changed a bit but still highway robbery as far as I can see.
I tried to explain this to my wife and her friends but they all seem to think people earn a fortune in Europe. I know their are a lot of benefits in Holland for unemployment health care etc. But its a very expensive system. I’m in Galecia (Spain) now and was shocked how prices went up in two years time, at least the tax system is better here.
I never knew adjudication was cheaper in Holland? -
Speaking of the devil: The minister of Finance just launched the idea of changing it to 60% for incomes above 54.000…
But yes, the working citizens are paying extra so the not working citizens can have a good and healthy life too. I’m ok with the idea, but unfortunately it only works if enough people are working. We got too many freeloaders in the last decades and it’s beginning to feel like robbery indeed. You might be better of in sunny Spain (or how about Indonesia!).
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How nice 60%, gets worse by the year. Don’t mention the free loaders as that is one of the reasons I left Holland, I really became right winged, got so sick of the place I left to Spain. Here OK as they have a sort of gray area for people working outside of Spain but bringing in money. Spain has so many immigrants world wide that its a big income as most send $ to support families.
As far as Indonesia is concerned my wife is trying to get my a pension status (I’m 55) and go for a pension Visa for 365 days a year. Sort of getting sick of flying to Sing or KL every 30 days. I like Indonesia, I live in a kampong and think its great.
After spending most of my life in Australia, USA, India, Holland, Brazil and now Indonesia
I like Indo, I do not mingle much with other expats as we simply do not have them in Serang area. Once a week or so we go out to Jakarta for a beer (for me).
By the way: my wife would freeze to death here in Spain but to live its number one as the people are very open and still family minded -
Are you sure you donāt want to meet him?
Meet me at the aforementioned uninhabited island, please…
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Meet me at the aforementioned uninhabited island, pleaseā¦
Okay, 17Ā°01’S, 149Ā°331’W.
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Okay, 17Ā°01?S, 149Ā°331?W.
Somewhere in French Polynesia? Sure, can’t wait to see you there…
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brian A says:
what happens in march, i mean regarding hari raya something in bali?
is it not a good time to travel to bali to visit and party???
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anna_bali says:
Brian, in march people in bali (Hindu) will have hari raya nyepi (silent day), its a Balinese new year where in that day everyone (including tourist) is not allowed to go out from house,and turn on the light.. but just takes time for 3 days (2days for the preparation and ceremony and 1silence day) so it will not bother your activity if u come before or after that date.
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is it not a good time to travel to bali to visit and party?
Did it ever cross your mind that besides “partying” Bali may have other interesting things to offer?
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yes dickhead it did, but that is what i generally do in Bali, Mengerti?
what i meant was, i have been told that it is very quiet in bali in this month?
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Seems the crossing happened quite fast though …
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great comment bs
good luck -
anyways, looks like the talk about dating indo girls has dried up…
and with poofters like bs on here there no point me contributing to this website any more.and good luck to the rest of you.cya
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timdog says:
Aw, c’mon Brian, I’ll talk to you about dating Indonesian girls…
So tell me, what was it that first attracted you to the idea of “Indonesian Girl” instead of a lady of your own race, culture and first language?
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So tell me, what was it that first attracted you to the idea of āIndonesian Girlā instead of a lady of your own race, culture and first language?
Shall I draw you a picture? It’s because of ‘partyers’ like him that what once was a unique and special place now has become the dwelling of whores, pimps and all kinds of related lowlife.
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Since I’m married, I am sort of past dating. But then again, Brian seems on the other side of dating from my point of view. And I like poofting in this thread.
Since Brian’s only other near foreign party place is New Zealand, and he is quite easily captured by the hunting ladies, I think he might be back here after his March-party.
It’s Indonesia again or banging a Kiwi (which might prove to be more difficult).Brian, I hope the last girl left enough of your bank account intact for the next girl. I wish you all the best (parties).
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@ TDOG
nice tits and ass,and much more fun and interesting of course foreigners i find are more interesting. u?@ET
get with the program big fella.Shall I draw you a picture?
i have checked out special and unique places in bali and paid my respects, take away the party people and low lifes of this kind, tourism in bali would struggle more than allready. Bali is still a unique place ET.
@BS
she left me enough to keep my internet going. you just worry about your own bank account ok.And I like poofting in this thread
theres the problem right there! some are honest on here and you are just poofting
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lialita says:
well excuse me… im indonesian who has relationship with dutch guy, i will make you sure i never sleep woth him till now, no, i wont give it to him for that,, bec i know if i give it to him, he will assume me like cheap indonesian gils, whos only looking for his wallet size,,he loves me very much and appreciate me so muc for that… indonedian girls noy like pinay girls or thai girls we will more have dignity and not do free sex for only can get money for that, if you guys found girls like thatm maybe you find it in a clubs or ” dugem: place he he we called it that in here, trust me good person will get good person too,,
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lia -
not all indonesian woman are whore, instead like not all western people use them for their own benefit ( for s– only ) , thanks God i have good fiancee who has great prespective bout this matter. find your indo girls out there , they will take care you as the best woman can be. well if you think you can draw my picture , go ahead, and thanks for that. im looking for a man who can draw it for my though.. he he he..
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@ET
That depends on where your living. If you’re moving to Europe with your wives, you have to leave three of them behind. We tend to treat all people equal (though some are a bit more equal than others).
@Shawty
Yes, I canceled the boat trip š
But anyway, it’s about 35.000 euro/year in the Netherlands for a young starter with a master degree. That can be about 50.000 euro/year when you hit 30. In the U.K. this last figure is about 32.000 pounds in general, but double in London and half in Scotland.
Note that the median salary (age 40, two kids) is 29.000 euro/year, so it’s capabilities that pay here, not age.