Dating Indonesian Girls
Apr 4th, 2006, in Society, by PatungDating Indonesian women may not be for everyone.
Indonesian women, particularly on the island of Java, are exceptionally beautiful. They tend towards the very feminine side, with lovely skin, are not too tall, and have knock-out smiles. There’s plenty of plus on that side of things.
If wer’e to be honest we have to recognise that many men are interested in a woman who will take care of him, do the housework without complaint, and take care of other matters similarly without much bother. Your average Indonesian girl often fits the bill in this respect, certainly more than your average western woman, the less said about them the better.
On the other hand going out with Indonesian women in a romantic way can have many mysterious pitfalls.
Some women here are clearly only interested in money. Some men are unbothered by this. Others of the female variety, can, once we get to know them very well, come across as practically insane, hysterically emotional, scheming, over-possessive, inclined to, usually fake, attempts at self-harm in order to get their way. As I said, not for the faint-hearted.
There are a few Indonesia dating websites although the area is not nearly as developed as that in nearby Phillipines or Thailand. To begin your online journey on the Indonesian dating scene our very own “Meet” section has many a lady eager for company.
4,898 Comments on “Dating Indonesian Girls”
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haha okay, venna, i know you hate bragging and such but you must know that i am a western art historian and artistic conceptualist and back in the days i used to paint too, so if you feel being body-painted by me (or maybe mind-painted too) no worries because then you sure look artistically nice and western museum worthy.. 😉
anyway, please don’t go through hell, i am here right with you as white-washed sun-burned power soul. all my life i dated bule girls and find them sexy too, just because i didn’t know anything else, except for some anak adopsi dari indonesia, but since my doors are open in asia haha, anyway, everywhere on this planet are honest beautiful sexy people, so let’s not forget about dating fruit from brazil, hong kong, and turkey
this morning i had this sentence of a song in my head
this world is like a mirror
reflected in what you do
and if you face it smiling
it will smile right back to you
so do one to others
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michael k says:
Swagman
Yes it was a discussion to Venna.
However, its for us all..not to be racist towards anyone. no matter what our Creed , Religionor colour.Thats my very point..God can’y any of you simulate information…and understand maybe we are more institutionally racist then we ever have been…waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa? Stand back and look with open eyes..instead of only listening to what you want to here…This world is F88Ked enough as it is..We all have to make a stand against our general bad “zeniphobic” bad attitudes > we dismiss this as our insecurities sown by governments and NGO’s and then dismiss it as the norm…maybe we are being changed re developed , our thoughts are look on life..
AREN’T WE ALL HUMAN BEINGS AFTER ALL….GOD HELP US IF WE THINK LABELING ME AS A BULE( WHITE BASTARD) OR A BLACK GUYS AS A NIGER, OR A PAKISTANI AS A PAKI TERRORIST…iS THAT THE REAL WAY OF WISE MEN AND WISE WOMEN.
I HAVE MET MANY MEN WHO HAVE MARRIED ASIAN WOMEN WHO MENTALLY ABUSE THEM..BOTH SEXUALLY AND RACIALLY..IT ALWAYS WORRIES ME WHEN, I HERE A MAN VERBALLY TOREMENT HIS ASIAN WIFE…??? AS STUPID OR JUST A SEX OBJECT.
I AM NOT HERE TO ABUSE ANYONE.SURELY THE EDUCATED LISTEN, THE IGNORANT TALK BACK. WHEN WE ARE TALKING WE ARE NOT LISTENING, OR LEARNING.
A friend is one who knows me, but loves or likes me anyway…
The virtue of love isn’t finding the perfect person, but by loving the imperfect
person perfectly….treat others like you would like to be treated yourself.I’ve have had to , as regards my marriage. Its the hardest thing I’ve ever done, marrying a Indonesian. But I have learnt so much about different cultures. I’m still learning everyday..to be tollerant and LISTEN..something men are not good at..yes ladies..
Michael k
“Bule” is a racist remark..period !
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an honoury nickname perhaps..? just like ‘pinda’, ‘blauwe’, ‘koelie’ and what else i was called when i was a youngster amongst the caucasians in belanda haha.
anyway, i agree, only god is a racist, we are just humans after all..
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venna says:
Yeah, this what happened when I was in my javanese soul mood while reading postings at IM, everything messed up LOL. Better use my whitewashed-bitch spirit next time. But I agree, Indo women can be bloody hell to western guys. Sobhana already burned some. Didn’t you, Sobh? ;-). Farah, even she seems calm, you better watch her avatar: don’t try this at home, or you’ll get kicked! LOL
lcvs, if there is a new mutant appear here, you are the only one that fit as a ‘dalang’ with your highly artistic side. But right now you make my life even more miserable. I tried so hard to impress people that i’m not the type of girls that western gals like, but you make me look more exotic with your paintings, which is one reason western guys turn their head twice everytime they see indonesian women passing by lol lol lol
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brian A says:
Sobhana,
i’ve been following this thread for awhile now and i must say, venna is definitely not trying to offend you in any way michael k. there was this individual who goes by the name…farah?? who is a real stinker when it comes to defining western men. such a miserable biatch. gosh did venna take a beating lol.
what you just did… ….its called a ‘hit and run’
@Michael K
you have put your heart, soul, mind, honesty and experiences into your posts and that should be appreciated by others. Enough talk about racism YA?
In a way sometimes it is a big effort to keep my Indo gf happy, in comparison to past western gf’s! its like a rollercoaster sometimes AAAAAAAAAACCCCCCCCCCCHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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sobhana says:
lol, guilty as charged, brian A. why go into deep analysis over some individual who for all i kno might not even be real. you don’t exist to me quite frankly. do i know you? no! perhaps i never will. i call em as i see em. and yea farah is a biatch. i don’t like her opinion, i don’t like what she represents and therefore i can’t see her as a complete whole-hearted individual (unless, of course, she comes clean, and gets off her high horse). The Being In Total Control Hype is not all it’s cracked up to be, sweetie!!
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Yeah, let’s not be racist. I’m now thanking a heap a great paki(stani) who created videos on math : http://www.youtube.com/user/khanacademy … as I desperately need to refresh my memory on calculus, statistics, and shits like that for my current work in biomedical engineering….
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Farah says:
@ Venna
hehe yes shes as calm as a kitty cat. Unless shes taller than 175cms, and weight over 80kgs, i will be afraid of her. From the avatar, nope i dont think i am afraid of her hahahaha…
Shes nothing but no brainer spoiled daddy girl—went abroad with daddy money, and working 40hrs a week, as she claimed, yeah right.. i know more people work longer than that, or went abroad and gain success, but not that snobbish. Just show how “empty” she is.@ Sobhana
don’t like her opinion, i don’t like what she represents and therefore i can’t see her as a complete whole-hearted individual (unless, of course, she comes clean, and gets off her high horse). The Being In Total Control Hype is not all it’s cracked up to be, sweetie!!
Like i said before, if you could read of course, i take no shit from you, i will say what ever i want to say, whether you like it or not. You just a sick girl, with no self respect, feel very sorry for you.
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ohh…. hehe i found this on my old emails, a silly joke about an Indonesia woman love letter, she want to break up with her American boyfriend with help of a dictionary she wrote this letter:
Hi Robbie, with this letter I want to give know you (hai Robbie, bersama surat ini saya ingin memberitahu kamu)
I WANT TO CUT CONNECTION US (SAYA INGIN MEMUTUSKAN HUBUNGAN KITA)
I have think this very cook cook (saya telah memikirkan hal ini masak masak)
I know my love only clap one side hand (saya tahu cinta saya hanya bertepuk sebelah tangan)
Correctly, I have see you go with a woman comforter at town with my eyes and head myself (sebenarnya, saya telah melihat kamu pergi bersama seorang wanita penghibur di kota dengan mata kepala saya sendiri)
You always ask apology back back times (kamu selalu minta maaf berulang ulang kali)
You eyes drop tears crocodile (matamu mencucurkan airmata buaya)
You correct correct a man crocodile land (kamu benar-benar seorang lelaki buaya darat)
My Friend speak you play fire (teman saya bilang kamu bermain api)
Now I know you correct correct play fire (sekarang saya tahu kamu benar benar bermain api)
So, I break connection and pull body from love triangle this (jadi, saya putuskan hubungan dan menarik diri dari cinta segitiga ini)
I know result I pick this very correct, because you love she very big from me (saya tahu keputusan yang saya ambil ini benar, karena kamu mencintai dia lebih besar dari saya)
But I still will not go far far from here (namun saya tetap tidak akan pergi jauh-jauh dari sini)
I don’t want you play play with my liver (saya tidak ingin kamu main-main dengan hati saya)
I have been crying night night until no more eye water thinking about your body (saya menangis bermalam-malam sampai tidak ada lagi airmata memikirkan dirimu)
I don’t want to sick my liver for two times (saya tidak mau sakit hati untuk kedua kalinya)
Safe walk, Robbie (selamat jalan, Robbie)
Girl friend of your liver (kekasih hatimu)Note:
this river I forgive you, next river I kill you !
(kali ini aku maafkan kamu, kali lain kubunuh kau !)Sumiati.
🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
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deta says:
And her boss saying:
My fruit child stupid doesn’t play (anak buah saya bodoh bukan main)
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child says:
Ok I’m actually looking for a foreigner who wants to marry my Mom.
She’s Indonesian. 38 years old. She has 3 daughters, 20, 18, 4.
She doesnt care about appearance, she cares about man who loves her family.
seriously, i dont really think about my self or what kind of Father I want, I just want to make my mom happy. -
lialita says:
come on…. dont make me scared to death guys… im going to marry western guy in short time.. we love each other, doesnt it enough ?..we passed our culture gap, coz he loves indonesia culture very much, and i respect his culture as well . he dont mind to take care of me and my kids ( im divorced,2 kids). coz he knows i will take care of him for his rest of his life. he said, javanese woman is the best to makes him sould be the happiest man on earth. isnt that so sweet ..??
@tini, thanks for sharing your story..
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Here is a song about “women” written by a man in love….it should have been written for Indonesian women..it goes like this…..
She can kill with a smile
She can wound with her eyes
She can ruin your faith with her casual lies
And she only reveals what she wants you to see
She hides like a child,
But she’s always a woman to meShe can lead you to love
She can take you or leave you
She can ask for the truth
But she’ll never believe you
And she’ll take what you give her, as long as it’s free
Yeah, she steals like a thief
But she’s always a woman to meOh–she takes care of herself
She can wait if she wants
She’s ahead of her time
Oh–and she never gives out
And she never gives in
She just changes her mindAnd she’ll promise you more
Than the Garden of Eden
Then she’ll carelessly cut you
And laugh while you’re bleedin’
But she’ll bring out the best
And the worst you can be
Blame it all on yourself
Cause she’s always a woman to meOh–she takes care of herself
She can wait if she wants
She’s ahead of her time
Oh–and she never gives out
And she never gives in
She just changes her mindShe is frequently kind
And she’s suddenly cruel
She can do as she pleases
She’s nobody’s fool
And she can’t be convicted
She’s earned her degree
And the most she will do
Is throw shadows at you
But she’s always a woman to me -
to Farah….
A she dog, or doggess; the most offensive appellation that can be given to an English woman, even more provoking than that of whore, as may he gathered from the regular Billinsgate or St. Giles’s answer–“I may be a whore, but can’t be a bitch.
It is also a common English profanity for a woman that typically carries denigrating or misogynistic overtones—such as resemblance to a dog. It is also used to characterize someone who is belligerent and unreasonable, or displays rudely intrusive or aggressive behavior.
Its original use as a vulgarism, documented to the fourteenth century, suggested high sexual desire in a woman, comparable to a bitch in heat. The range of meanings has expanded in modern usage. In a feminist context, it can indicate a strong or assertive woman, one who might make men feel threatened. When applied to a man, “bitch” is a derogatory term for a subordinate.
Yes Farah its a very apt name for you.. a F..ing bitch in every sence of the word..a most disagreeable human being..it must be lonely being you…lol
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@ Lialita
Why you should scare? you shouldn’t listen what most people say here about western guys. If he does make you and your children happy and feel safe, why you should be worry about that? That guy does sound nice 🙂@ Michael K
Hmm…. sorry, i didn’t feel as lonely as you said so. Fyi, i had a caucasian bf now, and its not my first one. I work with Caucasian workers too, from Italy, Australia, Canada, and USA. Why would you think i would be a racist if i hang out with one of you???For sure i wont listen to anyone who try to describe who i am. As in here sobhana describe me as a bitch.
Thank you for more description about the bitch terms. But;
Try to examine this, i hope your brain work good:
It is also a common English profanity for a woman that typically carries denigrating or misogynistic overtones—such as resemblance to a dog. It is also used to characterize someone who is belligerent and unreasonable, or displays rudely intrusive or aggressive behavior.
Who bark first on this page? me or sobhana?? did i ever call her names here? then, whos being aggressive here?
And here some more:
Its original use as a vulgarism, documented to the fourteenth century, suggested high sexual desire in a woman, comparable to a bitch in heat. The range of meanings has expanded in modern usage. In a feminist context, it can indicate a strong or assertive woman, one who might make men feel threatened. When applied to a man, “bitch” is a derogatory term for a subordinate.
Lets open the pages before you jump in this conversation… try to read page 89 & 90 or before that. She did the crouch “open house”, and willing to be a single parent.
And do you think i will agree with her calling me as bitch?
We just had different values, and she just cant accept that certain things are still important for some girls, like having self respect despite being dumb slut.
If you have different values or point of view, would you call names to the other person??
Like i said, i just see it as Sobhana stupidity, a girl who suppose to be showing more intellectuality since she had degree abroad and work there (but fail to show it here of course).
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Let’s just try to be positive Brian…
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Micah says:
America sucks, I live here it’s turning into a socialist dictatorship because we have a military industrial complex and run the world which will eventually lead to one world government… NWO HEAD <- America NWO ARM<- ENGLAND NWO BRAIN <- THE UN.
It's very simple actually and yes, I am going to Jakarta in hopes that I meet a nice girl because American girls practically all have the same snobby attitude and at heart I'm really a fun loving guy and would rather meet a girl who is interested in me and not what I do. -
Swagman says:
America a socialist dictatorship? Did I miss something?
Ps. My eyes are glazing over……
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Here is a song about “women” written by a man in love….
Written and performed by Billy Joel actually. The lady in question was Joel’s first wife, Elizabeth Small. They first got together when she was still married to Joel’s drummer Jon Small. Billy Joel was so tormented by his affair with his drummer’s wife, that he tried to kill himself by drinking furniture polish. Ironically, Joel was saved by the very man he was betraying when Jon Small rushed him to hospital. So, the song actually refers to her being a cheating sl*t 🙂
The sleezy couple later married …. of course that didn’t last long. When divorced, he stopped singing that song because he said it reminded him of food 😐
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ah nice information swagman. billy joel, i used to play drums in the highschool band and we always played the song goodnight saigon, when i see the bars filled with westerners hooking up with young indonesian girls, sometimes i just think of the cold war politics strangely enough. i don’t know, maybe i watched too much apocalypse now and tour of duty and full metal jacket in my youth haha, anyway, i just saw this documentary, perhaps micah wants to date a north korean girl too? in any case she won’t be a socialist.. 🙂
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Cool picture Icvs … wasn’t the world a much nicer place back when we were young and naive?
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Another great song (my favourite) from Billy Joel that might be apt for some of us here:
Just The Way You Are:Don’t go trying some new fashion
Don’t change the color of your hair
You always have my unspoken passion
Although I might not seem to careI don’t want clever conversation
I never want to work that hard
I just want someone that I can talk to
I want you just the way you are. -
Dear Farrah
Why do you comfort yourself so much….just because you have a bf..who is caucasian, by the way..ooooh ! and so many too, before…doesn’t mean you aren’t lonely, just as someone who hasn’t got a friend isnt a lonely person…too. Infact people who I have met who are “a” lone normally can entertain themselves and be very interesting people, then socialites, who are boring, boring , boring…its all about “me me me” all the time.
“You can not like others till you like yourself”
Seams to me Farah..takes one to know one..and we have found your “on” switch..lol
Maybe we ought to leave you alone..yes everyone..before you take all this to heart…lol
michael k
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Swagman
Well done that man..Yes I am glad someone is paying attention..yes cheating sluts…now where were we………………….oh yes “dating Indonesian women”
..yes !…cheating sluts…..now that should provoke some discussion….I’m waiting with bated breath….dont let anyone kid you..the reason why..indonesian or infact Filipino , or Thai women want white western men is..no matter what they may say is its motivated by money..its a trate of females..its in their jeans…they must select thriough evolution better DNA…its a desire to find better men.
You men who want a Asian wife add yourself in a Asian only dating site..and watch their behavior..look at the words they use…
here is a selction..of words i have read..
honest
clean
faithful
good girl
sincere
sexyI could go on..I think you get the thread here…so look at their fotos..look at their words compare them?
Which one do you think best discribes them ?
If they can add muliple pics, mosy of the pics will have been taken from above their heads and revealing their boobs , or taken of them just wearing a bra and panties with their own camera ,some with a hint of nipple showing.
Now I ask you again guys..what word best discribes them..yes ….”sexy”
Now any idea why then men get the wrong idea about asian women…
so if this is so….sincere A:X
honest A:X
good girl A:X
faithful A:X
clean : maybe
x= WRONGSincere and honest then must be wrong..we all see ourselves as good..so we get our general characteristics wrong…totally
I am writing a book on “Dating Asian Women”. honest !
I have observed how actually they are the biggest cheaters of all…
Watch how they, and how many times they come to the dating site..
Most sites give you their last time on line…and show you if they are on line…in the dating site even when they have read your msg to them.Its easy to spot a professional scammer, or a time waster..who actually has no intension of dating or falling in love.Or it could just be a man probably from africa who wants your id and will then earn dollars filling your inbox with porn spam.and maybe stealing your credit card details..or put a phlishing type virus into your messenger anoying anyone who has your msn or ym id.. never ever open pics or links in chat..never ok always get them to send fotos in emails.
If they are on line for more then 1 hour everyday..For get them.Unless they are at work using companies..computers.
If they show their bodies in any way in picture, guys. ie bikinis, bra and panties.Forget them.If you are looking for a wife. ok if you just look for sex.
If they show pics of them shot in a studio, forget them..probably fake..most definately stolen.Most Asian girls couldnt afford it.
Most rich asian women are happy to have there own men as lovers.
If they give you their messenger id or fone numbers in their profile ..forget them.
If they are too pretty and you get a email from them saying how you look so hansome .you look so young .its too good to be true …if you look like an older version forest gump in yours..lol forget them. they are scammers.
If you get any email from any girl..good well brought up Asian women do not approach men ..ok got it..they don’t..ok guys. Especially Indonesian and Thai dont chase men.My advice is survey them…get their id..see how often they are on line..most messengers you can get an elert to sound when they come on line.
Generally wait…a while see if they say hello to you first..if 10 mins go bye..you are not their first pick.Maybe they are chating to relatives..but if eventually they say hello to you. encourage them to lie…reverse question them..do not ask direct question ..id advise sign off, then sign on..then say straight away “hi” to them..ask ooooh im glad i got you on line..yes they say ive only just signed on too just to see if i could chat with you as you are all I want.I have made up my mind its you who i want in my life…hmmmm? still dont tell her..ok no no//do not..ok
If they say they “I love you” on line..omg..they are playing you…delete them…pls. its hard to do,,but trust me no one can love anyone on line, only.
i suggest you at work, then sign off when she says oh really..ok
then sign back on “off line”..ok, now observe her ……it sound like you are a insecure idiot..but make sure ..you stay off line..but just make a note of how long she stays on line. Next time ask her about it..and what she said to you..if she then says “what did i say, i cant remember”..hmmm alarm bells should ring in your head. women, sincere women do not forget that//ok.Then say i noticed you stayed on line..after you signed off..and if now she get angry…dump her///ok your being played..
Ask them a good same question again and again each time you chat on line..if its the truth..it will always be the same.DO NOT DRAW REFERENCE TO IT IF SHE WRONG..OR SHE WILL GET ANGRY normally BLAME YOU AS A BAD MAN..AND GO..SHE WILL BLOCK YOU AND YOU NEVER SEE HER ON LINE AGAIN.THATS YOUR PROOF.
REMEMBER A HONEST LADY WILL NEVER GET ANGRY IF YOU ARE A GOOD MAN LOOKING FOR HONESTY AND SINCERITY IN THEM. SHE WILL AGREE AND LIKE YOU FOR IT.OK
And guys if she wants to show you her naked body on line in her cam…delete her and block her…but take a look any way before you do..its free after all…lol. However. if she refuses to show her face on cam..be very careful in my experience..it might not be her the girl in the pics..it could be a man even..a gay man..preditor..yes who wants to get off on seeing your “MR” errect. Or even a bigger compulsive eater..retund lady..ok Most places in this world now..net cafes have a cam..My general rule is if she refuses to show herself in cam she is dishonest to you.
As is the Asian woman who has only one foto..yes just one foto, could be fake..okAs is the Asian who has 100’s of fotos…all of which are sexy..maybe even soft porn ones and still insists she is a good girl virgin hmmm ?? yeah right….and sends you new ones. 10 at a time everyday..be very warry of her. Come on guys…get your brains out of your own pants..and back where it belongs in your skull.
She refuses to get a cam..but has her own pc at home. yes right..gives you an answer they are so expensive. IF she says if you send me 1 million rupiah via western union..I WILL BUY a cam and you can see me fully naked..DO NOT GUYS..ITS A SCAM OK. you will not see her or chat to her again ok
She is a professional thief ok…like in the song..its a business to her.stealing and dating lonely old western men. BUT SHE NEVER HAS TO DATE..OK SHE GETS HER MONEY WITHOUT EVEN SEEING OR MEETING YOU…
Never ever listen to hard luck stories..about Mom or Dad OR HER SICK LITTLE SISTER being in hospital…and no money for medication.It might be the case, but really asking a stranger for money> a good asian woman never ask THIS, NO MATTER WHAT..ok its not in their true culture to do this.
So NEVER EVER DO IT…SEND MONEY.NEVER !!
AND GUYS IF YOU THINK I AM WRONG FOR THIS. SO ARE YOU …AS THIS PROVES YOU JUST LOOKING FOR SEX VACATION AND OR SEX WITH PRETTY GIRL..ON THE CHEAP !
REMEMBER THEIR WOULDNT BE BAR GIRL IF MEN DIDNT LOOK FOR IT AND PAY FOR IT. THE LAWS OF SUPPLY AND DEMAND.
BASICALLY IF YOU STILL GO AHEAD..YOU DESERVE EACH OTHER,,AND YOU WILL BE ROBBED WITH YOUR PANTS DOWN AND YOU MIGHT, IF YOU DO NOT TAKE PRECAUTIONS GET SOMETHING ON YOUR “MR” THAT MIGHT BE WITH YOU ALL YOUR LIFE.
ONE LAST THING……remember
LOVE IS FREE
SEX IS NEVER FREE….AND IF YOU WANT TO PAY FOR IT…UPTO…BUT DONT GO MOANING..IF SHE TURN OUT TO BE BETTER AT SCAMMING THEN YOU ARE…LOLOK…….guys
michael k
Asian Human Behaviorist expert…hahaha ! …tongue in cheek
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it’s allright darling, okay sweetheart, you’re safe now, stop please stop you’re hurting my inbox! hahaha
anyway, please continue, as you may prefer, i don’t mind haha i should also stop commenting on this thread myself pffff time to date a sexy chick now
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“Michael K”
at the end of the day, for MAN in general
if we want something we like, then we buy it.If western man wants and Asian women/likes her/loves her then we must satisfy her wants and desires. Most people have issues with money, dont make it sound like there is nothing more to these women then just the money. Ya when they get money they are happy as everyone is.
as for attributes of asian women, of course there are sincere and honest women amongst them, as you sey unlikely to find them on dating website.
If you are writing a book on dating asian women (unlikely) so you are not planning on talking about dating the sincere and honest asian women, but only the scammers?
@Patong
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shawty says:
michael k
Asian Girls”..” Human Behaviorist Expertwell most what u wrote are correct..most proper thai or indo women don’t chase hence we most likely lose in the game in comparison with other type of girls since most of white men the loser type have special needs to be adore (they don’t get in their countries) lol
nah now can u write about British online dating..
that just simply about getting laid as fast and many as possible..
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@ Michael K
Dear Farrah
Why do you comfort yourself so much….just because you have a bf..who is caucasian, by the way..ooooh ! and so many too, before…doesn’t mean you aren’t lonely, just as someone who hasn’t got a friend isnt a lonely person…too. Infact people who I have met who are “a” lone normally can entertain themselves and be very interesting people, then socialites, who are boring, boring , boring…its all about “me me me” all the time.
Why do i feel comfort?? well because he entertain me a lot and made sure i am not feeling lonely!! if someone doesn’t have bf COULD not feel lonely, why do you think i am then?
I want to share that info with you, since you are very kindly tell us your stories with your ex scammer gf’s and your marriage 🙂
But its just the same like you say there, you had asian wife, so does like lots other caucasians…. i didn’t see that as anything special too, not even necessary to comment, just boring story of a caucasian “conquer” a submissive asian woman. If indeed you practice all things you said in your comments.
And its actually “normal” to kiss few frogs to find your prince charming. No need to be that bitter and generalize all the same! lots of people had scars in past relationship, with Asian or not. You just had bad luck.
“You can not like others till you like yourself”
Well actually people could not like others, but like them self. Its just same like you don’t like to eat spicy hot chili because you know that will hurt your tummy, or when you hate indonesian girls because they are no good for you. Whats the different?
Only you who knows what the best for your self. What others had sometimes not good for you 😉
And by the way, i will admit some of things you write are make sense, but i short of not agree with this (and its MY own opinion):
i suggest you at work, then sign off when she says oh really..ok
then sign back on “off line”..ok, now observe her ……it sound like you are a insecure idiot..but make sure ..you stay off line..but just make a note of how long she stays on line. Next time ask her about it..and what she said to you..if she then says “what did i say, i cant remember”..hmmm alarm bells should ring in your head. women, sincere women do not forget that//ok. Then say i noticed you stayed on line..after you signed off..and if now she get angry…dump her///ok your being played..errrhh, woman these days not use YM/ims only for dear caucasian boyfriend that live abroad.. its 2010, my YM will online as soon as i turn my office computer on, or my laptop. Whether the guy online or not…. duh! you’re not the center of universe! not the only person on the chat friend list!
I connect with my sisters in different places/city/islands/country sometimes with YM and also my university friends. So if i chat with my bf and he got off line, i am not suppose to talk with my sisters if i see her online or my friends? beside that these days with Black Berry you could get online with your YM/MSN messenger anytime you want. So if its on all the time thats mean shes cheating? he he he yikes.. ?? fun to be your gf/wife ya?
Ask them a good same question again and again each time you chat on line..if its the truth..it will always be the same.DO NOT DRAW REFERENCE TO IT IF SHE WRONG..OR SHE WILL GET ANGRY normally BLAME YOU AS A BAD MAN..AND GO..SHE WILL BLOCK YOU AND YOU NEVER SEE HER ON LINE AGAIN.THATS YOUR PROOF.
REMEMBER A HONEST LADY WILL NEVER GET ANGRY IF YOU ARE A GOOD MAN LOOKING FOR HONESTY AND SINCERITY IN THEM. SHE WILL AGREE AND LIKE YOU FOR IT.OK
Ok, what if the girls is really honest, how much percent in these universe the population of a honest men?? if its like once a while i wont mind if he ask, but, i wont like it if my bf being HYPER suspicious and ask the same question over and over (e.g asking “where are you?” or “who’s you’re going out with?” like every 10 mins??).
Its simply….. annoying. And you will be on my blocked list, that’s true, and i will never pick up your phone and block your mails! (you will do the same thing to a girl who do same thing and call her crazy/psycho).
If he did that i will think that:
1) If he is a retarded and cant understand what i say/type
2) If he is actually had problem in following a conversation, could talk, but can’t listen (only do one way communication).
I would also assume he is a liar, and now he is afraid i will do the same thing to him. Its not something that i will compliment or agree with. Or maybe he had this trust issue, comparing the present relationship with his past, where he got hurt so badly because the girl cheat on him???Ohh.. i learn my mistake, and i don’t want to know this kind of guys–guys with emotional stinky baggage.
If there is no trust in the relationship, why you keep continue it? you can’t trust that person, then don’t involve with that person ever again. Caucasian or not!!!
My general rule is if she refuses to show herself in cam she is dishonest to you.
Oh come on, LOL… i rarely use web cam. I had both on my laptop and home pc. And if any guy PUSH me to open my webcam, i will ignore him!! you know how many pervert online? a lot! the one that when they request cam to cam chat and at the end he turn out to be an exhibitionist and show his d*ck without a warning??? its gross me out, instead turn me on! hahaha! (thinking how many girls have seen those). You think i will take that chance and let my family see that on my pc screen and think i am a porn addict??? he better ruin some stupid girls life but not me!
@ Brian A
If you are writing a book on dating asian women (unlikely) so you are not planning on talking about dating the sincere and honest asian women, but only the scammers?
Hahahahahah! … yepp that would be good “Dating Asian Scammers-Do and Don’ts” he sound very good at that.
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hmm.. i hope i didn’t push some buttons… because that would be too easy.. its really need one to know one 😉
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@ Sobhana
I thought you are really “smart” but you’re not, just another twisted head, what a disappointment.
You should try harder to get better impression here 🙂 rather than try to made me look bad, which is very childish.
Fyi:
BITCH is: Being In Total Control Honey!
And here is more my fave from my bitchionary:
A Bitch takes shit from no one. You may not like her, but you cannot ignore her….[Bitches] have loud voices and often use them. Bitches are not pretty….Bitches seek their identity strictly thru themselves and what they do. They are subjects, not objects…Often they do dominate other people when roles are not available to them which more creatively sublimate their energies and utilize their capabilities. More often they are accused of domineering when doing what would be considered natural by a man (Feminist attorney Jo Freeman (Joreen) authored the “Bitch manifesto” in 1968)
Love to be a bitch for you Sobhana… any time sweety! 🙂 🙂 🙂