Dating Indonesian Girls
Apr 4th, 2006, in Society, by PatungDating Indonesian women may not be for everyone.
Indonesian women, particularly on the island of Java, are exceptionally beautiful. They tend towards the very feminine side, with lovely skin, are not too tall, and have knock-out smiles. There’s plenty of plus on that side of things.
If wer’e to be honest we have to recognise that many men are interested in a woman who will take care of him, do the housework without complaint, and take care of other matters similarly without much bother. Your average Indonesian girl often fits the bill in this respect, certainly more than your average western woman, the less said about them the better.
On the other hand going out with Indonesian women in a romantic way can have many mysterious pitfalls.
Some women here are clearly only interested in money. Some men are unbothered by this. Others of the female variety, can, once we get to know them very well, come across as practically insane, hysterically emotional, scheming, over-possessive, inclined to, usually fake, attempts at self-harm in order to get their way. As I said, not for the faint-hearted.
There are a few Indonesia dating websites although the area is not nearly as developed as that in nearby Phillipines or Thailand. To begin your online journey on the Indonesian dating scene our very own “Meet” section has many a lady eager for company.
4,898 Comments on “Dating Indonesian Girls”
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ET says:
How you guys never read these magazines….
No need to, deta. I only have to imagine you at midnight, in the dunes of the cape to…
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deta says:
Glad to hear, ET. Anything else I can help you with?
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Glad to hear, ET. Anything else I can help you with?
Can you give me my confidence back? According to inez I may have lost it.
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Nay says:
What I have learned about Inez is that she doesn’t get enough love or attention from men, and has a chip on her shoulder about it.
Her attitude is probably what’s doing it, and unfortunately her situation won’t improve until she stops being judgmental and creating walls between people when they really don’t exist. So instead, she just spits vitriol as the only way to draw attention to herself, and it seems to work because it makes her feel self-righteous. She’s also jealous of pembantus because “bule” like them, and probably wonders what life might be like with a western man… but nobody wants her, so now is has to backwards rationalize her choices in life by ruining the fun for everyone else.Did I miss anything?
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bs says:
Did I miss anything?
yes, you did. Without Inez we would have less fun reading this thread.
Something has to keep IM going during the absence of new articles … -
Without Inez we would have less fun reading this thread.
Something has to keep IM going during the absence of new articles …That’s a fair cop
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Cukurungan says:
I was touched with brotherhood among the feminized bule men as shown in this thread, they are supporting each other because they are in the same cause, all of them were victim of sex abused by their tyranny femininator women at his home land, in the contrary the feminine woman in here was fighting each other in order to show her domination.
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Finn says:
Inez.
LOL it’s funny to see all feminized bule “men” here, they got their ass kicked by their women back home and they come to 3rd world countries with a tail between their legs…
I did get my ass kicked by a woman from in home country, she was huge. We certainly like women who can stand on their own two feet, but you sound like a teenager and ‘life is a bitch’ but get over it and find a partner in life who you are happy with. whether it be
(cheap) Indonesian ladies
there are some people in the world who when they see a couple together hand-in-hand, dont judge (like you seem to) but are happy for them that they have found love or a friend.
So it seems I will be getting married to an beautiful Indonesian girl soon, can anyone help me as to what needs to be done considering I am catholic, how many days it will take and the processes, this needs to be done for her quickly as she is understandably worried about being pregnant before marriage.
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please help me out.
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Femininators….
If they are the femininators, we melayu man is more than ready to help our bule brother to softened them but the real feminators have been facing by our bule brother is below so sorry we can not give them help except our pray
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venna says:
Femininators….
http://tiny.cc/edapW
__________________They still can handle them, and I think it’s quite fun too for men to have women like these. Time for party, boys.
___________________http://www.mingleville.com/view-60ba290jsw97606_blogs.html
_____________Ummm…… once I saw this type of woman in Indonesia and she had 2 husbands. People believed that she used magic to control them. But I believe she just need her 2 fists for each. Not much different than her leagues in the west. Now it is time for praying
(sorry I’m not gender-sensitive today. Pretty much intoxicated after reading news about terrorism and “pemakan manusia”)
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@ Finn
can anyone help me as to what needs to be done considering I am catholic, how many days it will take and the processes, this needs to be done for her quickly as she is understandably worried about being pregnant before marriage.
Wow… what’s her religion? If I understand this correctly, If she’s Muslim, you have two choices. Convert to Islam and marry in Indonesia, or get married back in your own country.
There are websites dedicated to explaining the details. Maybe somebody who is already married and been there and done that can help.
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Time for party, boys.
Happy days are here again.
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@Finn
Been there. Contact your embassy, they usually explain everything on their website.
Here’s the Dutch one (sorry, in Dutch):http://indonesie.nlambassade.org/consulaire_zaken/huwelijk_in
This website also has quite some info:
http://www.expat.or.id/info/mixmarriages.htmlAnd if you’re facing Javanese traditions, look at this guy’s site:
http://users.skynet.be/sky86158/Do remember that Indonesian institutions are not that rigid as Western ones, a lot is possible if you just go with the flow (and sometimes go against your principle of not participating in corrupt practices).
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sajjad says:
I want to come to indonasia not only for dating but i might go for a relationship if i like it.
Plz advise which city will be best for me.Kind Regards,
Sajjad.
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ow sajjad, where you’re from my little friend? so you want to come to my birth country huh?! i recommend that you go to bandah aceh and find yourself a nice lady over there. be careful with the wh. anyway, don’t go to suroboyo, because it’s full of dangerous bonek ‘holligans’ (haha) who will certainly chop your head of if you dare to touch their nice javanese girls.. so try your luck in bandah aceh hahaha
all the best!
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ow sajjad, where you’re from my little friend?
__________seems like an A**b to me. Please invite him to Surabaya, darling. Chop him while I turn on the stove and heat the pan.
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seems an outstanding idea venna! let’s tear that porky apart haha
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Barbeque sauce is on the wayyy…….
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Apart from lovely surabaya, I too recommend Aceh:
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why not invite him to komodo island? it’s under-visited natural wonder. it has lovely creatures.
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The stones are on the wayyy….. Choose wisely, Sajjad. And prepare yourself. Both are already included into 101 ways to die (who give brochure about Indonesia to this ridiculous man?? Nuts!)
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Okay, I think I need a break. After consuming too much disturbing news, I tried to have fun reading at Bekasi Bigots only to find more about human satay. Go to Pembantu & Bule, they serve Cowboy Bali. And here, someone jumping in the wrong pool. God, I need booze!
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venna, cool down. drink some temulawak.
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@Venna
I agree we definately need a new article to comment on, the last one is already from 21st February.
Anyone on floods, bank Century? bule vs. non-bule part x (dikkiman?)… -
or… ayam / pembantu / westernized-whore vs. well-to-do-elitist-indonesian-woman (a.k.a.: venna vs. inez).
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Re. the video Syarat Islam.
The perfect song for a karaoke bar, especially the lyrics.
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In the masculine (???) version of the song, you can see the WH-cops in action. Aceh does look like a depressing place in that video (with the night patrols etc in the first few minutes):
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brian A says:
@BS: + all
thanks for those websites you gave to finn they were much appreciated.
Finn and Brian A are the same people
so that girl I shared my story with on here, yea she is pregnant about 3 months now, since my last trip to Bali and Java.
So my life just changed alot.
Good luck to everyone and myself I will need it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
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Hmmm… I know who would be getting their elitist, up themselves arses kicked if she took that tone with any of the Indonesian girls I know. Pretty brave (?) and stupid call to refer to people you have never met as “cheap”.