Dating Indonesian Girls
Apr 4th, 2006, in Society, by PatungDating Indonesian women may not be for everyone.
Indonesian women, particularly on the island of Java, are exceptionally beautiful. They tend towards the very feminine side, with lovely skin, are not too tall, and have knock-out smiles. There’s plenty of plus on that side of things.
If wer’e to be honest we have to recognise that many men are interested in a woman who will take care of him, do the housework without complaint, and take care of other matters similarly without much bother. Your average Indonesian girl often fits the bill in this respect, certainly more than your average western woman, the less said about them the better.
On the other hand going out with Indonesian women in a romantic way can have many mysterious pitfalls.
Some women here are clearly only interested in money. Some men are unbothered by this. Others of the female variety, can, once we get to know them very well, come across as practically insane, hysterically emotional, scheming, over-possessive, inclined to, usually fake, attempts at self-harm in order to get their way. As I said, not for the faint-hearted.
There are a few Indonesia dating websites although the area is not nearly as developed as that in nearby Phillipines or Thailand. To begin your online journey on the Indonesian dating scene our very own “Meet” section has many a lady eager for company.
4,898 Comments on “Dating Indonesian Girls”
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bonni says:
Bad to the Bone,
Did I sound like I was flirting with you?
But, yeah I am single…
The rest of the song goes ” so from my personal point of veiw, get another girl to marry you’.
in other words-the singer wants the pretty girl for himself. : )Glad to know that… I rest my case then… 🙂
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stevo says:
Bad To the Bone, you clearly have much deep wisdom and knowledge of women. bonni is lucky to have your attention.
I must however warn you that bonni is a femanazi (Sturmbannführer bonni we call her) 🙂
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Sssshhh Stevo! 😀
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Ja wohl !!! Frau Sturmbannführer 😉
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Bad to the Bone says:
Bonni ” so i rest my case then”. ah, what exactly was your case? i didn’t see one outlined. All i saw / could take from your input was that you are a pretty girl, not married, maybe looking for mr right who also maybe didn’t like the idea less pretty girls were more eligable. Also why not flirt with me? maybe i’ll flirt back-or maybe i already am.
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Stevo ” bonni is a femanazi” . Stevo i don’t mind that, my present love interest is the same, she’s only tiny but rules the roost, bujt i have my moments when i’m on top (‘everytime’ as she tells her friends), so it balances out quite nicely & we are both happy with the result-or so she says.
though i think there is a ‘no man’s land’ where improvement/wants & needs could be added/met in all relationships. -
she’s only tiny but rules the roost
Oh yes………… the smaller they are the more trouble. I have learnt that one the hard way !
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Bad to the Bone,
Bonni ” so i rest my case then”. ah, what exactly was your case? i didn’t see one outlined. All i saw / could take from your input was that you are a pretty girl, not married, maybe looking for mr right who also maybe didn’t like the idea less pretty girls were more eligable. Also why not flirt with me? maybe i’ll flirt back-or maybe i already am.
Ok, I was interested in this…
There’s a song that say’s ” if you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife- tricky isn’t it?
I was going to tell you that prettyness and ugliness are relative.
Bonni ” so i rest my case then”. ah, what exactly was your case? i didn’t see one outlined.
My case was as mentioned above.
All i saw / could take from your input was that you are a pretty girl, not married, maybe looking for mr right who also maybe didn’t like the idea less pretty girls were more eligable. Also why not flirt with me? maybe i’ll flirt back-or maybe i already am.
I didn’t like the idea less pretty girls were more eligable… As I said before prettyness and ugliness are relative… But it’s ok if that’s what you think… About the flirting… Hmm… Maybe… 😉
Stevo ” bonni is a femanazi” . Stevo i don’t mind that, my present love interest is the same, she’s only tiny but rules the roost, bujt i have my moments when i’m on top (‘everytime’ as she tells her friends), so it balances out quite nicely & we are both happy with the result-or so she says.
though i think there is a ‘no man’s land’ where improvement/wants & needs could be added/met in all relationships.I have to tell you that I am not tiny… My height is a lil more than the average Indo girls’ height. Good things about balance in a relationship… 🙂
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so Bonni if beauty is only relative, is it the same with age in your opinion? also if you don’t mind what is your star sign & also if you know it you chinese horoscope animal-if you don’t know, could you tell me your birth year? is that flirting?I’m year of horse & libra
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Bad to the Bone,
Age is relative? In what context? I don’t get your question…
I was born in a hospital for sure… My star sign is Leo, my chinese horoscope is Dragon. Can you read palms too? What about Tarot? LOL
Bad to the Bone the IM fortune teller LOL
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Age in context for example; older bule & younger indo lady-lady wise & mature, bule wise but young at heart & fit & healthy. if beauty/or looks are there & relative, how so age difference? in your opinion.
ancient chinese would consult before marriage horoscope compatibility, marriage would be determined by this. with western & eastern horo’s can get a good & clear idea of (compatability)/who person is. can’t read palms, but like most guys can read other body parts–haha. sorry bout that -
Bad to the Bone,
In my opinion, it doesn’t matter. As long as the difference are not too much 😛
Well, I can read body languange and its subleties 😉 LOL
Haha ok I would consider consulting marriage horoscope compatibility before I marry someone in the future… 🙂
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“My star sign is Leo, my chinese horoscope is Dragon. ”
Wow bonni ! You should like a real handful of trouble. Leo & Dragon.
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Shrica says:
Like to date with a Indonasian girl in Kuala Lumpur.
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Careful what you wish for Shrica !
Why not date a Malaysian girl in KL?. Is sort of like, wanting to date a Mexican in Iceland.
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Stevo,
No stevo… Leo & dragon are so girly… 😛
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By girly you mean volitile, moody, passionate and lovely ?
My last long term relationship was a Scorpio/Dragon. Whew !!! 😉
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Stevo,
Shrica can not resist the charm of Indonesian women… 😉
Shrica,
I think there are a lot of Indonesian women in Malaysia… Good luck! 🙂
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I admit they are rather charming. Complex and un-knowable, but totally enchanting.
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Stevo,
What do you mean by ‘un-knowable’? 😛
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It means I do not know whats going on in their pretty heads.
Actually I think that is the situation with women generally. Its not a problem. I do not know what my cat thinks, but I still like her.
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Stevo,
Well I do not know what’s inside the guys head either… 😛 Although I know what you guys are thinking most of the time… 😛
It is only a matter of time you get to know each other… Unless she’s ‘catherine tramell’, you would know her for sure… I hope no icepick involved 😛
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I think I dated her bonni, or at least someone identical. Some parts were good!
Yes we guys do think of -that- much of the time. Have you got any better things to think about? Seems to me if we all spent more time thinking about that, and less time on some other stuff, the world would be a more peaceful place.
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Stevo,
Wow, what a lucky guy you are! Me wish to date a ‘james bond’ someday LOL
It is ok to think about -that- sometime. It’s natural…
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Bonni looking at your horo signs–regal pussy & dragon i can see you would be a fantastic catch for any future ‘james bond’.
a good web site for chinese & western horoscopes is @ ‘us bridal guide’.
it says there about horse & dragon together ‘you share a powerful sexual chemistry’ & also together they are ‘sexually charged’.
i’m not a ‘james bond’ type but is that why you showed interest in this ‘horse’. ha ha.
my Java ‘snake’ would kill me if she knew i was chatting/flirting with you, but i’m a bit bored & nothing wrong with a bit of idle bs stirring/chat.,
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Bad to the Bone,
Bonni looking at your horo signs–regal pussy & dragon i can see you would be a fantastic catch for any future ‘james bond’.
Amen to that!
i’m not a ‘james bond’ type but is that why you showed interest in this ‘horse’. ha ha.
my Java ‘snake’ would kill me if she knew i was chatting/flirting with you, but i’m a bit bored & nothing wrong with a bit of idle bs stirring/chat.Oh dear, she surely would kill you if she knew you were chatting/flirting with me. This is the most sex I have this week… 🙂
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Bonni,’this is the most sex i’ve had all week’
I hope you enjoyed the ‘sex’ Bonni , i know i did, ha ha.
but are you just going to leave me now & forget me, where you thinking about the ‘sex’ all day today?
best be careful, we don’t want everyone to know we had ‘sex’, they might get the wrong idea about Indonesian girl’s. there is always someone who wants to think negatively about that. If they do I’ll bring out my nastiest side at them & defend you. Also I’m most probably old enough to be your dad. But thanks again for a nice time. Muah. lol.
I hope your ‘Jame’s Bond’ isn’t to far ‘down the road’. Enjoy your weekend sweety. -
Bad to the Bone,
About the ‘sex’, I was just being cynical when you said your java ‘snake’ would be jealous LOL
I hope your ‘Jame’s Bond’ isn’t to far ‘down the road’. Enjoy your weekend sweety.
Thanks! Enjoy your weekend too, daddy! 😀
I’ve been a good girl, please don’t spank me! 😉 LOL -
Good to see that at least two of the posters here are getting on well 😉
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Bonni
‘so are you single”
oh Bonni–are you flirting with me? i live single & have
already signed the divorce papers.
Are you single? I’m in a relationship with a Jawa lass- for the last 2 years.
The rest of the song goes ” so from my personal point of veiw, get another girl to marry you’.
in other words-the singer wants the pretty girl for himself. : )