Dating Indonesian Girls
Apr 4th, 2006, in Society, by PatungDating Indonesian women may not be for everyone.
Indonesian women, particularly on the island of Java, are exceptionally beautiful. They tend towards the very feminine side, with lovely skin, are not too tall, and have knock-out smiles. There’s plenty of plus on that side of things.
If wer’e to be honest we have to recognise that many men are interested in a woman who will take care of him, do the housework without complaint, and take care of other matters similarly without much bother. Your average Indonesian girl often fits the bill in this respect, certainly more than your average western woman, the less said about them the better.
On the other hand going out with Indonesian women in a romantic way can have many mysterious pitfalls.
Some women here are clearly only interested in money. Some men are unbothered by this. Others of the female variety, can, once we get to know them very well, come across as practically insane, hysterically emotional, scheming, over-possessive, inclined to, usually fake, attempts at self-harm in order to get their way. As I said, not for the faint-hearted.
There are a few Indonesia dating websites although the area is not nearly as developed as that in nearby Phillipines or Thailand. To begin your online journey on the Indonesian dating scene our very own “Meet” section has many a lady eager for company.
4,898 Comments on “Dating Indonesian Girls”
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Stevo says:
Although you claim to disagree with much of what I have said, you have failed to address the substantial points.
Most of your responses focus on interpretations that are far removed my actual thinking. While it is acknowledged interpretations can vary, on a particular statement, you chose to take the least favourable/bizarre and make a parody of it. What then follows are attacks on the person, rather than the idea. This is usually supported by a bit of out of context cut & paste.
Your interpretation, of my posts, speaks more to your thinking, than it does my own.
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You do have an interesting way of rationalising things Stevo, I’ll give you that.
While it is acknowledged interpretations can vary, on a particular statement, you chose to take the least favourable/bizarre and make a parody of it.
You have been unable to (openly) acknowledge the bias and distortion excesses of feminist doctrine have brought in the West.
I note however, that you have voted with your feet.
What other possible interpretation to the above statement could be other than you are claiming (nonsensical as that assertion is) that I somehow supported your feminist phobia by living in Indonesia.
You are living in the biggest Muslim country in the world, made up of Asian people. I suspect the lady in your life has more in common with your adopted country, than your country of birth.
Again… your statement not just a Muslim country but the biggest one and filled with Asians…Just not sure of the relevance. Is it the Muslim bit or the Asian bit as for the “lady” having more in common than the country of my birth, pretty safe assumption she was born here, knows the best tokos and short cuts to town..but what is the point you are trying to make..
As for substantial points..other than in your opinion Feminist b*tches have made your particular life hell, not sure we have had one other than wild unsubstantiated statements about “them” and what “they” have done..
Ok I confess, I am just having fun now..
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Well I can only assure you that my personal dating habits are not restricted to any particular race/religion/region/cult/ideology. I have no idea about your proclivities Oigal.
But secretly I wish I had the form to catch one of the much sought after English backpacker girls, who wander the world “finding themselves”. (It goes without saying that an Aussie lady would be the ultimate, but I can only dream)
If only I was not such a misogynist pig 😉
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Again the dating and sex life of Stevo, as discovery channel worthy it may be…your point?
Well I can only assure you that my personal dating habits are not restricted to any particular race/religion/region/cult/ideology.
But secretly I wish I had the form to catch one of the much sought after English backpacker girls, who wander the world “finding themselves”. (It goes without saying that an Aussie lady would be the ultimate, but I can only dream)
Is this like a Timdog flashback, he would be flattered (don’t think I ever used the backpacker refence….or is once again mmmm..lets see..
If we look at the first statement your habits are not restricted to any race/religion/cult/ideology…Well unless I have misunderstood the sarcasm..Aussie girls are out, as are backpackers, as are most Western Women because “they” caught the feminist plague…I am assuming that they must be Asian and Muslim based on a previous post (although that is not clear..nor if they have to be veiled or not). Seems you are very restricted..
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Oigal, you are going to have to work harder than that to stir me up.
I think we have all contributed to a noticeable change of atmosphere on this thread. Possibly we need the wise and enlightened counsel of Achmad to restore clarity.
An Indonesian friend and I discovered his blog a couple of days ago. We were in tears of laughter 🙂 🙂
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Lairedion says:
I think we have all contributed to a noticeable change of atmosphere on this thread.
Correct. You came to realize you kinda embarrassed yourself with quickly jumping on my comment, your bizarre statements, postings with multiple e-mail addresses and irrelevant revelations on your sex life.
But I enjoy reading it…. 😆
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Oh I don’t know it hasn’t been hard so far..
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Once again Lairedion, you fail to address any substantive point I have raised.
Ad hominem attacks do not present a counter argument.
You are getting increasingly desperate with references to non-existent statements about my “sex life” & some nonsense about email addresses ???
This is typical of those who adopt beliefs through indoctrination.. They do not form their own morality or ideas, but simply appeal to what they believe will confer a social advantage. An essentially selfish trait. Its also boring and predictable. It falls well short of the interesting open debate that places like IM allow us to have.
This is why you are unable to construct any relevant reply and resort to parody and straw man arguments.
Very light weight.
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There has been repeated speculation from Oigal and his ilk, about my personal dating habits and preferences. This has included a rant about me being gay. (Nothing like a bit of gay bashing to show how “open minded” and liberal you are, a chaps?)
Much latter I mentioned that I dont show a clear preference for any particular “group” and that I generally get on with women of all types.
This was described by Oigial as a graphic description of my “bizare sex life”
Oigal, this is a thread about dating -Indonesian- girls. If you dont find that of interest, perhap you can ask David to start a thread that addresses your own unique proclivities.
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Oh my Stevo, there you go again with the simply bizarre and simply way too easy to prove as nonsense statements. May I suggest write, pause ten minutes then read what you have written, it will save you a heap of embarrassment.
Me, pretty sure I never even used the term Gay and certainly never ranted about you being gay or otherwise( tell you what just for some credibility, why don’t you cut paste where this occurred). I think you will find the term bizarre was used in relation the seemingly irresistable compulsion to reveal your sex habits or more likely lack of to others.
As for the Multi emails that has been established by third party. I not sure what your point is with the strawman argument? There was one simple assertion by L that you embarrass yourself here and on assertion do not the straw make. Continual references to your own sex life in posts in support somehow western women are missing out now that’s straw man!
Lastly seriously it’s breakfast, no more of the Stevo reproduction trainsmash stories, it’s inhumane.
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Oigal and his ilk …….:-). How cool is that I have an Ilk now. Never had an Ilk before, I gather it’s like a posse or gang or perhaps after the last few posts it’s a gift from Stevo..a little gerbil with it’s own packet of masking tape..and we call it Ilk!
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The bit about me being gay seems to have gone (David?) It was posted by one of your “Ilk” not by you personally.
And no idea about the email thing. But so what?……. I have only used the name Stevo.
There are no references to my sex life, other than the speculation of others. But your point is taken Oigal, girls (Indonesian or otherwise) have no interest/relevance on this thread !!! lol 🙂
Banging away on the same theme does not sound convincing, it sounds autistic. Enjoy your breakfast ………….
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Mmmm…Does one really have to repost your posts on your dating habits ( hobbits), your outrage at some non existent gay post, the women you date ( ok that was funny). Seriously at least make it a challenge or it’s no fun.
I confess this is just a time killing until the real loons come back to the BO and atheist threads but you have to concentrate more.
By the way, I assume the Ilk is just another manifestation of the ‘they’ the vast conspiracy to make stevos life hell. Time for the Bex again sport.
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You really cant accept any view than questions the western liberal agenda. You should post on stormfront, with your assumption of Bule superiority in all things. If only I had brighter skin, maybe I would see the light and maybe join your Ilk.
That non-existent post was from, bad to the bone (I think)
Like I said, if I made things up, they would be way more interesting. 😉
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Any substance to go with that little rant? Come on, not making anything up…haha thats funny..looking forward to another howler..along the lines of.. 80 % rapes are fake reports, women in Afghanistan have nothing on the persecution of Stevo in the west, oigal called me gay. Oh and my personal favorites..it’s true because I know some investigators, no I have a mate who knows someone, no..I work in the industry ..
As for accepting a view, honestly I have no idea what your view or point has been except some vague conspiracy about some evil cabal of feminists who have ruined western culture and some bizarre link to Muslim asian women although never did get how they fitted into the conspiracy or on what side?
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Yeah I am just waiting until I can escape for a beer!
By the sound of your lastest post Oigal, you had few for breakfast.
Thats a great skill, making a montage of sentence snippets. Especially after 8 Bintangs for breakfast.
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deta says:
Come on, don’t give it up…
Here is another stir:
My only objection toward Stevo’s ramblings is the racism tone used in “grouping” women. The basic idea in empowering women in strongly patriarchal society like Indonesia is to enable women to identify their own uniqueness. To discover their talent and capability and use it to the fullest, based on their unique characteristic. Stereotyping women by putting them in the boxes with some labels, will create a pressure – no matter how light the degree is – for women to fit into those general stereotyping in order to go with the flow. For example, Indonesian women are stereotyped as feminine, obedient and take care of their men well 🙁 , therefore they feel an “obligation” to fit into that stereotypes or they will be out of dating and marriage scene (uh, oh, what is scarier than that? 🙂 ). That, my friend, will be an impediment for the overall struggle for women’s empowerment. And the way I see it, you are one of those inhibitors.
If only I were a feminist… (too bad I still love to wash my hair regularly)
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Deta, you will see I was speaking out against stereotyping of Indonesian women and against the racist implications of that. (pg 128)
So thanks for your support.
As for Indonesian women being “obedient”, well you never heard that from me !!! 😉
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Tsk tsk Stevo, this from the person complaining about people falsely maligning his character..
But the best part they were all your sentences ..it’s hoot when you put them altogether isn’t it. Feminists don’t wash their hair Deta?…. Oh that’s right I forgot that one..heh the smelly lady in the lunch room ergo all western women are feminist harpies in the field of submissive, Asian roses. Althought we must remember to be fair, that’s only Muslim Asians apparently ..bad luck for them Korean Christians
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“this from the person complaining about people falsely maligning his character..”
I can take it Oigal.
I mean if you had to stop attacking the person, rather than the argument, there would be no more Oigal to amuse the more rational readers.
We need you to remind us all of the innate superiority of the West. Least the rest of them step out of line and forget their place.
( The “rest of them” in this case, being the vast majority of the planet.)
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Sorry Stevo,
Make up your mind? am I ” only attacking the person instead of the argument” or arguing the case of the international feminist conspiracy.? Cannot be doing both?
Stevo, I have only been making fun of your silly statements and generalizations only you could work, teist and fondle that into some wider plot to re introduce colonial rule across the world. Hehe Consider yourself called! Time to put up or ….Where did I state anything about the innate superiority of anyone…ok accepting the fact that Stevo is not a race in and of itself 🙂
Yet again you bleat about attacking the person and launch into yet another unsubstantiated Personal attack but notna very good one, so lets move on to the good stuff.
Let me catch up with the inner conspiracy then, it’s now oigal and his ilk, along with the left west liberal press, the neo feminists of australia, who along with the anti gay league of America and the international league of non hair washing backpacking woman, ramming their delusions of superiority onto poor persecuted Stevo who worked in the Industry along side the Muslim sisters OWC.
Wow.ok..you pass move along to the BO thread….
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I have tried repeatedly to turn this thread back to dating/Indonesian girls.
But Oigal has scolded me severly for this.
Like the IM Taliban, he has viewed this as bizarre and overt sexuality. He forbade it.
Consistently he keeps turning discussion back to the subject most dear to him.
(ME)
I am flattered of course, but encourage you Oigal, once again, to start another thread catering to your unique and intriguing tastes.
I have taken on board all that Messrs; Oigal, Timdog, Lairedon have said. Maybe they will find a cure for me and I can one day have a fat angry feminist harpie all of my very own. Its an exciting prospect.
Thanks!
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Davo says:
Any advice where to have a good time in Bali for a oldy like me in his 50’s ??
absolutley love Indonesion women and they know how to have a good time
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Asked to put up or……So that’s the sound of chirping crickets on IM.
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ET says:
@ Deta
The basic idea in empowering women in strongly patriarchal society like Indonesia is to enable women to identify their own uniqueness. To discover their talent and capability and use it to the fullest, based on their unique characteristic. Stereotyping women by putting them in the boxes with some labels, will create a pressure – no matter how light the degree is – for women to fit into those general stereotyping in order to go with the flow. For example, Indonesian women are stereotyped as feminine, obedient and take care of their men well 🙁 , therefore they feel an “obligation” to fit into that stereotypes or they will be out of dating and marriage scene (uh, oh, what is scarier than that? 🙂 ). That, my friend, will be an impediment for the overall struggle for women’s empowerment.
Where did you learn to speak this PhD jargon?
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timdog says:
Where did you learn to speak this PhD jargon?
Happier when a woman’s syntax stretches no further than “me love you long time”, presumably?
😉 😉 😉
Oh c’mon! Couldn’t resist it!
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Happier when a woman’s syntax stretches no further than “me love you long time”, presumably?
FYI, PhD here was supposed to be an acronym for ‘Penis hating Dyke’. This specific use of the acronym was actually an invention of Deta herself. She certainly remembers.
Couldn’t resist this one.
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“Happier when a woman’s syntax stretches no further than “me love you long time”, presumably?”
Racist hate crime!!!
Ayam are people to Timdog !!
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stevo says:
This just a test of me signing up. Please Oigal take this in a gracious manner 🙂
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This is curious. What are you trying to make? ..Is it critical that the country is Muslim or Asian.. Would the point you are trying to make be valid if I went to Asian Buddhist Country or how about Muslim West..say Turkey.
We are rapidly approaching that very bizarre “they” country.. They make better lovers and care for their men better..They are very emotional…They think we are all infidels..They all to kill us..They don’t…They do..