Dating Indonesian Girls
Apr 4th, 2006, in Society, by PatungDating Indonesian women may not be for everyone.
Indonesian women, particularly on the island of Java, are exceptionally beautiful. They tend towards the very feminine side, with lovely skin, are not too tall, and have knock-out smiles. There’s plenty of plus on that side of things.
If wer’e to be honest we have to recognise that many men are interested in a woman who will take care of him, do the housework without complaint, and take care of other matters similarly without much bother. Your average Indonesian girl often fits the bill in this respect, certainly more than your average western woman, the less said about them the better.
On the other hand going out with Indonesian women in a romantic way can have many mysterious pitfalls.
Some women here are clearly only interested in money. Some men are unbothered by this. Others of the female variety, can, once we get to know them very well, come across as practically insane, hysterically emotional, scheming, over-possessive, inclined to, usually fake, attempts at self-harm in order to get their way. As I said, not for the faint-hearted.
There are a few Indonesia dating websites although the area is not nearly as developed as that in nearby Phillipines or Thailand. To begin your online journey on the Indonesian dating scene our very own “Meet” section has many a lady eager for company.
4,898 Comments on “Dating Indonesian Girls”
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missingchips says:
Hmm let’s see this Missingchip’s profile :
1. Has racist tendency (auto racist to be precise).
2. Insecure.
2. Feminist at heart.NOT INTERESTED! and no men should…
Well, like most women in this world, except, probably Jessica Alba, I have my own insecurities.
And yes, I’m feminist at heart, but feminism is a wide wide subject. You don’t know what kind of a life available for women, especially them who live in third world country, namely Indonesia, where they must struggle to prove themselves against all the two dimensional personification of women (you can see this incessantly promoted by the media).
But has a racist tendency? Me? Aren’t you reading too much? And I understand if this insecure and feminist at heart kind of girl is not your cup of tea, but deciding that no men should?
Thanks, and don’t worry Dave, the feeling’s mutual. ^_^
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@ET
Hey, why F*ck The World? Don’t take it personally. I was only joking.
Lol. Srsly, F*ck The World? Where did you get that. The Tigress pic is made for teh win. And I know you were only joking, duh.
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ET says:
@ missingchips
And I know you were only joking, duh.
That’s a relief. But talking about felines can sometimes create confusion, like in this story:
A widowed Jewish lady, still in good shape, was sunbathing on a mostly deserted beach at Ft. Meyers , Florida . She looked up and noticed that a man her age, also in good shape, had walked up, placed his blanket on the sand near hers and began reading a book.
Smiling, she attempted to strike up a conversation with him.
“How are you today?”
“Fine, thank you,” he responded, and turned back to his book.
“I love the beach. Do you come here often?” she asked.
“First time since my wife passed away 2 years ago,” he replied and turned back to his book.
“I’m sorry to hear that. My husband passed away three years ago and it is very lonely,” she countered. “Do you live around here?” She asked.
“Yes, I live over in Cape Coral ,” he answered, and again he resumed reading.
Trying to find a topic of common interest, she persisted, “Do you like pussy cats?”
With that, the man dropped his book, came over to her blanket, tore off her swimsuit and gave her the most passionate lovemaking of her life. When the cloud of sand began to settle, she gasped and asked the man, “How did you know that was what I wanted?”
The man replied, “How did you know my name was Katz?”
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Dave says:
Only insecure, self hating, racist person specify RACE PREFERENCE on their self ad.
But actually I feel sorry for you I bet you are so desperate you’ve been rejected by men of your own race.
I see that you have no good sense of humor as well, I thought ET’s joke was funny. No wonder you are lonely now. I guess no sane man will be interested in you.
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@Dave
Well, I prefer dark chocolate to the white one. I will not drink milk even if you pay me 10$ (I will consider it for 100$, though). I like studying politic and ethnography, but will not be an A-student material for math and physics. I prefer long black hair to short curly hair. I prefer baduk to chess. I love my mother’s cooking above any other food.
It’s all about preferences. So sue me.
And I thought I already come to term with @ET, that we both appreciate his joke.
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“How did you know my name was Katz?”
This one made me smile.
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This one made me smile.
Thank you. My pleasure for putting a smile on your face. 🙂
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Good evening ^_^
@ET
What a lousy Monday. But then, when was Monday ever good? Until I see your post that is. I was lucky for not spilling the Tong-Ji tea to my keyboard this morning at office looking at the cat/joker image. Somehow the evil cat image stucked and just … wrong, lol.Did you do the photoshop-ing yourself?
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dianira says:
good morning everyone…i wanna find a nice bule in here who want serious relationship,,hehe…^^
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@ missingchips
Did you do the photoshop-ing yourself?
I like to shop around.
BTW, it seems you’ve got competition.
dianira Says:
November 30th, 2010 at 8:44 amgood morning everyone…i wanna find a nice bule in here who want serious relationship,,hehe…^^
Maybe our webmaster David should organize an auction. Or a mud wrestling match.
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Uh-oh….
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agan says:
Would u 2 seksi gurls consider a bucheri (bule nge-chet sendiri) instead?
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kumaranil says:
i want to meet a decent indonesian girl
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Prurientone says:
I live in the states and to be honest am disgusted by our women, it’s all about stuff and it is just gross. Fake boobs, botox, lip jobs and tummy tucks… You go to a get together and they are all comparing against each other.. I’ll pass..
Personally I think you have to find what fits for you, if you want an Indonesian girl just open your heart up to her and be honest. Don’t play games or think your some stud because you are seeing a gorgeous woman.. Treat her like you want her to stick around and you just might end up with her having your children. Sign me up!
Living in Washington State and sick of “fake” -
anto says:
@Prurientone
I’m Indonesian.. I live in Indonesia and to be honest I am disgusted by our women. It’s all about money for them…Very materialistic, dependent, hypocrite, liar, don’t know how to do household chore incl. cooking, cannot handle children without nanny or their mum/mother in law, feminist wannabe but depends 100 % financially on their man cause “the religion said so” , prone to cheating (esp. with more powerful and resourceful man) ..
So…. ???
Don’t generalize..
everywhere in the world there are good women there are bad women..If you always get the bad one… may be it’s you.
I’ve been with great American woman, I’ve been with great Indonesian woman. I’ve been with American bitch, Indonesian bitch..
Stop whining and look at yourself on the mirror. If you cannot get high quality American woman, may be there is something wrong with you.
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@ Prurientone & ante
Your problem has nothing to do with American, Indonesian or whatever women. Your problem is an universal one:
HOW TO KEEP A WOMAN HAPPY….
It’s not difficult to make a woman happy.
A man only needs to be:
1. A friend
2. A companion
3. A lover
4. A brother
5. A father
6. A master
7. A chef
8. An electrician
9. A carpenter
10. A plumber
11. A mechanic
12. A decorator
13. A stylist
14. A sexologist
15. A gynecologist
16. A psychologist
17. A pest exterminator
18. A psychiatrist
19. A healer
20. A good listener
21. An organizer
22. A good father
23. Very clean
24. Sympathetic
25. Athletic
26. Warm
27. Attentive
28. Gallant
29. Intelligent
30. Funny
31. Creative
32. Tender
33. Strong
34. Understanding
35. Tolerant
36. Prudent
37. Ambitious
38. Capable
39. Courageous
40. Determined
41. True
42. Dependable
43. Passionate
44. Compassionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
45. Give her compliments regularly
46. Love shopping
47. Be honest
48. Be very rich
49. Not stress her out
50. Not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
51. Give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. Give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. Give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY….
1. Leave him alone
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oki says:
”indonesian people from high, midle and low class all same. they are like to kept GENGSI! (plz translate it for me..). especialy for girls they’re have very big gengsi.
i been seen many girls from many countries. in base all women are materialistic but i never see gengsi trait from other country people”. -
I heard once a friend said: girls don’t make friend. they compete (with each other).
in other words: mysoginists.
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pringles says:
most of westerners here only look for a pair of arms to keep them warm while their job contract lasts. As soon as the termination comes, the relationship will be ended too despite all the commitment and promises that have been made along the way.
They flirt around a lot, knowing how Indo girl admire the composition of blue eyes, blonde hair and tall figure in a man. Not to mention the potential wealth they might seem to offer. As well as other urban-mythical extras such as bigger shoe size which indicates…………..
Having all that in hand, it’s very likely for them to take the relationship for granted. I hate prejudice and generalization of any kind but this time is an exception.*totally aware of my cynicism and bitterness here. Just cant help it.
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@ pringles
They flirt around a lot, knowing how Indo girl admire the composition of blue eyes, blonde hair and tall figure in a man. Not to mention the potential wealth they might seem to offer. As well as other urban-mythical extras such as bigger shoe size which indicates…………..
On a scale of 1 to 10 how much would you allocate to each of these 3 elements of attraction that you mention?
1. Blue eyes, blonde hair and tall figure
2. Potential wealth
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Aprianti says:
“As well as other urban-mythical extras such as bigger shoe size which indicates…………..”
Bigger feet ?!? …
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missingchips says:
I vote for the shoe size 😀
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Bigger feet/shoe size simply means he has bigger socks!
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@ missingchips
I vote for the shoe size
Blacks seem to have the biggest shoe size.
Have the bules fallen out of your grace? -
@Agan:
I had to reread your response. Almost take the ‘s’ in socks as a ‘c’, well either s or c your answer is believed to be correct 😛by the way, hello everybody, I’m new here.. apparently. I stumbled upon this website during one of those boring hours at work when one would rather randomly surf the internet. I’m amazed at how this thread managed to survive all these years, there shud be a celebration or something.
Good luck on the mixed race dating/marriage peeps! I’d surely love to see some more pretty faces Cinta Laura style gracing Sinetron scenes or more Caucasian built handsome soccer player in PSSI. oo yeah -
Astrajingga says:
120 pages of comment and it hasn’t stopped.
I think this is the ‘selling point’ of Indonesiamatters.comI for one am making the pages longer.
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Michael says:
Indonesian women loyal? Married javanese women go to bali to have affairs. All women are the same.
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Eric says:
Parvita s’got a brain
you got a big point there
personally i think indonesian girls are very interesting & savvy
i stayed in Indo almost a yearfrom Canada
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Rassal Shaw says:
Hi Indonesia–Salam–Happy New Year,
I am muslim from USA and engineer by profession and looking for serious relations fro Indonesian girl, widow preferable. I want her to be my partner in life in good and bad moments like a best friend, with whom i share my happiness, my money and each moment of life. can keep her head on my shoulder, can uplift her and grow her- if yes–send me mail for further. Now a days I am in Saudi Arabia.
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