Dating Indonesian Girls
Apr 4th, 2006, in Society, by PatungDating Indonesian women may not be for everyone.
Indonesian women, particularly on the island of Java, are exceptionally beautiful. They tend towards the very feminine side, with lovely skin, are not too tall, and have knock-out smiles. There’s plenty of plus on that side of things.
If wer’e to be honest we have to recognise that many men are interested in a woman who will take care of him, do the housework without complaint, and take care of other matters similarly without much bother. Your average Indonesian girl often fits the bill in this respect, certainly more than your average western woman, the less said about them the better.
On the other hand going out with Indonesian women in a romantic way can have many mysterious pitfalls.
Some women here are clearly only interested in money. Some men are unbothered by this. Others of the female variety, can, once we get to know them very well, come across as practically insane, hysterically emotional, scheming, over-possessive, inclined to, usually fake, attempts at self-harm in order to get their way. As I said, not for the faint-hearted.
There are a few Indonesia dating websites although the area is not nearly as developed as that in nearby Phillipines or Thailand. To begin your online journey on the Indonesian dating scene our very own “Meet” section has many a lady eager for company.
4,898 Comments on “Dating Indonesian Girls”
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Tomaculum says:
Janma,
accepted. 🙂 -
Janma says:
Mr Michael Knight,
it’s 66 club…. three sixes are for the devil.
Ps… I know many many Australian women and many many Indonesian women… although I am a woman so I’m not scanning them for bedworthiness I must say that Australian women I know are not hairy or hugely fat…. plenty of the Indonesian girls don’t shave and have hairy legs…. much more than any australian girls I know… unless of course they are on the look out for a bule to pick up, then they spend all their waking moments readying for the party, and they look stunning….
whatever lights your candle…. I just think dating is one thing, spending your life is another… looks are not the main thing to think about when planning to spend your life with someone. -
Tony says:
Back at my desk from a night of entertaining clients, one of which is now moving to Asia because he fell in love with the women–imagine that.
Dimp: Bringing my poor Madre into this. Well, I can see how you would be pissed off enough to even state that Amrozi’s bombing of innocent men, women and children is justified. I WOULD BE PISSED OFF TOO IF SOMEONE NAMED ME “DIMP’–GO BLAME YOUR OWN MOTHER FOR THAT MISTAKE! 🙂 Have a good day and crawl back in your hole. Loser.
I know this may come as a shock but the theme of this thread is “Dating Indonesian Girls” . Perhaps we could discuss that as opposed to putting down Americans, Canadians, Indonesians, Australians or any other ‘ans or ‘ians.
Anyone else have a positive/negative experience dating, falling in love with or just having “friends with benefits” arrangements with Indonesian Women??
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Ihaknt says:
Dimp that’s why these men said what they said. If they call their mothers cow(considering they called western women cows, hence their mum is a cow too) then I can just imagine how they treat their woman. Altho, come to think of it, cow is a very useful and yummy animal that we human so depend on for survival – either for food or just fashion – milk, meat, hide, leather, fertiliser, etc.
I still dont understand where these shallow pricks found these hairy western women. Must’ve been a bad dodgy pub. Thank god the ones I see are gorgeous and hot. And so are the Asian women I see. Are you guys sure they chix you dated weren’t middle eastern (did I just open another debate?). If their back was hairy maybe there’s a chance they were a he-she? Yes Janma, my friends back in Indo dont shave, I agree with you, Indo women can be hairy too. Personal hygiene doesnt discriminate if you’re Indo or a bule.
Anyway, beauty fades, your wife will one day be fat too, maybe not soon maybe when they hit 50, but probably by then you will have left them, again for younger, stupider, a user and more appealing one.
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LOL, this thread delivers. Hey its cool, some other dudes will marry the ugly chicks. This is just caused by some old broad who didnt care how she looked, and thought, like soo many other women, that when the wedding ring goes on, they can let their looks go to sh*t.
A man is an animal too, if he sniffs some ass that is better than what he has, why not take it? I mean if his wife were doing what she was supposed to, then there would be no problem. If a woman is hot in her twenties, she can be hot in her 50’s and 60’s if she takes care of herself and her man. Acting and feeling sexy, not only improves sex hormone levels in older couples, but also improves their relationship in all areas.
Julia’s husband got some new ass quite easily, do you think she could do the same? Prolly not, if she can’t please the man she married and he houses and feeds her fat ass and she still can’t produce in the home, I say you get what you work for. In other words, Julia work that ass or GTFO.
Where I come from they call Dimp a maricon or puta as well. How about we talk about asian girls we love, or are the no success losers hating? thats prolly it.
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Cukurungan says:
Tomaculum :
Hi, Achmad Sudarsono,
now I understand what you meant in some of your comments sometimes ago.Cukurungan :
Come on Tom, don’t forgot me MR CUKURUNGAN an expert in “BULENOLOGYST”
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Yee, si Cuk, ga diajak ngomong nyamber aje. Maunya dipuji. Najis.
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Dimp says:
Hey Hijo de Puta,
Dimp: Bringing my poor Madre into this. Well, I can see how you would be pissed off enough to even state that Amrozi’s bombing of innocent men, women and children is justified
I don’t justify Amrozy’s action, but its your attitude thinking you are better than the rest of the world that brings people like Amrozy into hating you guys.
Perhaps we could discuss that as opposed to putting down Americans, Canadians, Indonesians, Australians or any other ‘ans or ‘ians.
But still okay to putting down women in general? Ha, you make me laugh, try tell that to your dear Madre.
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Aluang Anak Bayang says:
Hey guys, I do not see what is wrong with White guys having a bit of fun here, afterall the onus is on our Indon gals, and they are not forced to. Unlike Pakistanis and Middle Easterns who take advantage of our Kampong teenage sisters, and did it with full blessing of their imaginary god and credulity of our uneducated peasants.
Amrozi is an Arab wannabe who would prostitute his own daughters on a divine sanctioned contractual marriage, as long as one had the ‘moslem’ tag on.
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Achmad Sudarsono says:
Tony,
Dude,
Love to see what sort of cannon fodder you become in an Indonesian courtroom up against a tough Batak who knows all the tricks. I wonder who’d be the pathetic whiner then, going on about, ‘rule of law,’ ‘sanctity of contract,’ and all that other crap the Americans come up with when their bribes go astray in a game they don’t know how to play. (See everyone, I’m a poet).
But you can feel really proud bullying women on the internet. Bully for you, bully.
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Dimp: Any insult you want to level is just fine, coz the end of the day, your name is still “DIMP”. Btw, I heard Amrozi took a money shot on your Madre’s Face as he was getting off of her–now that’s what I call a PUTA!! 🙂
Achmad: I know many tough Bataks but at the end of the day your courts (sadly to say) are for sale. The fight never goes to the best lawyer (which are not the Bataks but rather the Chinese, Bataks just have the biggest mouths but the Chinese do the best research–very bright) the fight ALWAYS goes to the biggest wallet.
We not her to bully women. Again, this thread is for a certain disucssion. You and the other “gender challenged” male co-horts can take the western women on this thread and go to another disucssion group that is based on celebrating any other women except Indonesian women. Discussion group rules apply here–if you are not discussing the topic then leave.
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Philly Mcfadden says:
Michael Knight,
I am an Indonesian who are blessed and happily married to a wonderful Godly American husband. I came to US almost four years ago on Visitor Visa for my wedding (I arrived in US only four days before the wedding). Several month after I got married I applied for Permanent Residence (Green Card). This way was informed to my husband to be by an US Immigration Officer before I decided which visa I should applied.This is only and idea that you might consider for your fiance.
Have a blessed day.
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Ha,
Tony, it seems that you have affixation on your mother, seems that you were abused by that cow mother of yours. Sorry that she didn’t give you enough love, is this why you are so afraid with western women/girls? And have to resort to using your ‘money’ to get Asian girls?
Pathetic.
But then again what do you expect from someone who refers to western women (including his mother) as “Cows”.
Discussion group rules apply here-if you are not discussing the topic then leave.
Tony, you seems to be in the wrong website, this is not http://www.abusedbycowmotherlookingforcheaplove.com
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You boys argue like little boys. Demeaning lines after demeaning lines. Put downs after put downs. I wonder if you also fight like that in court Tony. Maybe you should represent Schapelle Corby, see if you can mock those judges and get her off the hook, then after you can smoke pot with her.
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Tony,
There you go again — telling people to leave — and missing the point.
Indonesian courts are for sale ? No sh*t, Sherlock. Didn’t I say, ‘game they don’t know how to play’? I wasn’t talking about baseball.
Point is, it’s fine to talk about Dating Indonesian women. You seem to mix it up with a lot of low-grade frat-boy personal abuse levelled at an individual. Bully, bully, bully and a woman no less.
Indeed, the conversation is about dating Indonesian women — not abusing Western ones.
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Achmad,
After you have finished crying maybe the thread can continue. I take it you were abused by some frat-boys–not my problem–did they make lil Achmad cry??
I would love to defend Ms. Corby and later, along with smoking some good herb 🙂 we could go down to the 66 and pick-up a lovely Indonesian lady for a threesome 🙂
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Ooops,
I thought this thread is about dating Indonesian women and not “how to satisfy my second brain (between my legs) which runs riot” or “who is the better expert in insulting”?
“Cow” (for a woman), “shot in your madre’s face”, “threesome” and so on and so on.Have further fun guys, its not my level. 🙂
Maybe you guys should try to respect Patung who let us discuss via his blog. -
Hidup Tomaculum!!! I agree with you.
I reckon he bought his lawyer certificate without actually finishing the degree. -
Tomaculum,
Yes, good point.
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No offence, Ihaknt, but I thought you were one of those ‘hotties’. 😛
And Tony, with mouth like a blocked toilet bowl, you must be a newbie in our land. I have seen the like of you having his jaw cracked by locals. No amount of law suit can get you out of the sewage hole once you dropped in. This is Indonesia, cowboy.
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Oigal says:
Indonesia is a wonderful, mystical place and never ceases to amaze me..Assmad complaining about someone lowering the tone of a discussion..sheeeet!
And why would anyone brag about being a lawyer… as I said never ceases to amaze..
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Pak Oigal,
I feel a bit hurt by your comment. I’ve only ever sought to enhance fellowship, goodwill, and mutual tolerance in the struggle. It’s a bit mean, you calling me, ‘Assmad’, combining the words of Ass- either donkey or buttocks, depending where you are from, with ‘mad,’ or insane.
What did I ever call you ? (There was that small matter of baselessly and knowingly accusing you of lying face down in a pool of vomit in a Blok-M bar after trying to rip off the bar girls, but no-one’s perfect).
Then you rebuffed my effort to become your Friend. But that’s ok, Friend, because I know that goodwill in the end will overcome bad. I have many, many fans, including Tony, Parvita, and secretly, yourself.
But back to the subject of dating Indonesian women. Indonesian men will always make better lovers. We don’t need viagra, a big, tax-free salary with subsidized housing, or an opinionated meandering Blog to get the girls. We just flash our charming ‘Melayu’ smile and let nature take it’s course. Just ask our women.
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dewaratugedeanom says:
After reading some of the latest comments I think I have to expand my criticism of some Western women to their male counterparts. Vulgarity reigns supreme. Do they have their brains between their legs? These idiots give Amrozi and the likes the stepping stone for their despicable actions.
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Bobby says:
Hey ! Im talking with an Indonesian female and we are ready to take it to the next step and get married! Can any body give me advice on the easiest way to do this. Should we marry in Indonesia are america. If it’s in Indonesia will we both be able to move back to America. I’m just starting the research on this so PLEASE give me advice. My email is Scubarat@cox.net. Please send the advice there.
Thanks
Bobby
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Chic says:
Hello! I am an Indo girl, I’ve read all the comments on this topic and it really gives me some value informations about having serious-relations with “bule”. I really appreciate it so much.
Thanks for all of you who already gave comments/opinions and especially thanks to Patung who’s already provided this site to collect all opinions out of many heads from all over the world.
I am now going to have a serious-relation with an English guy. He makes me happy in many ways and loves me so much. We first met about 5 years ago in Holland, already have feeling for him, but the fact that we’re colleagues made me (also he) not to let this feeling grow. But we started to share our feeling last year when he visited Indonesia for some bussiness matters (and still, we are colleagues). We’re keeping in touch by chats or email or sms untill now. He will be coming to Indo again next week to meet me and we both will talk about our next step for a marriage and living together. (And I am very nervous…!!)
I also told him about this site and he already read this as well. It gave him more informations about Indonesian matters and at least he got some pictures about living in Indonesia (with the good and bad). 😉 And for that, again I have to say thanks to all of you..and off course you, Patung!
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Peter says:
dewaratugedeanom:
Hey not all Westerners are so vulgar! (But some are, unfortunately.) Also, not all westerners are “Bule”. 😉
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Anyway, I may be travelling to Yogya next summer (June/July/August ’08), and if anyone here is from there or has friends/family there, I’m looking for a family to host me or someone (a girl would be nice) to show me around the city. My email is tps_108@yahoo.com. -
Simon the Great says:
It sounds like a lot of complaints involving girls are simply the same complaints that are voiced the world over and not just regarding Indonesian girls or bule guys. Many women are materialistic, many women just want a family, many women just want sex, many women want money. Same thing with men. Many men just want sex, many men want a family, many men even want money.
Some guys are lonely and can’t get a date. Some can’t get laid. Some others have a new girlfriend every week. It depends on the guy, his looks and, above all else, the way he carries himself. And determination.
Guys, these are simply the same old problems that have been around between men and women since Adam and Eve and exist everywhere from Ecuador to the Roman Empire to Indonesia to Australia to the Majapahit Kingdom.
Me, I married an Indonesian girl who was age 20 and I was 47. She was and is cuuute. And sexy. I’m now 56 and we’re still smoking that bed 2-5 times a day.
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Simon,
You da man!!
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I won’t waste anyone’s time here but I put my own thoughts on my blog regarding this topic. You might want to check it: – Finally Woken.
Cheers everybody
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Sorry Tomaculum,
I got mixed up with the cutting and pasting…. it was tony who had the spliff and lie down experiences…. sorry about that….